Shortly after starting at RIC, I joined Harambee, the Black Student Union, excited to connect and learn. I attended events regularly but often felt uncomfortable, questioning my identity and whether my voice mattered since I didn’t fit the expected appearance. One spring meeting stands out: while filling out paperwork for students of color, an Eboard member told me, “You’re not black, you don’t need to fill this out.” I was shocked and hurt, and this moment triggered my identity crisis. Despite this, I continued attending events, determined to represent Biracial folks. I eventually joined the Eboard as Secretary. It all paid off when we hosted Yusef Salaam, and I spoke in front of 1,000 people, which transformed me and helped me embrace my identity. My time in Harambee taught me valuable lessons about resilience and self-worth. I’m grateful for this journey, as it has empowered me to use my voice and advocate for others, deepening my understanding of myself and fostering inclusivity within the organization.
Sunday, September 29, 2024
WHO ARE WE (AS YOUTH WORKERS + HUMANS)?
Friday, September 20, 2024
WHY DO WE DO WHAT WE DO? (IDEOLOGIES)
“People don’t buy what you do; they buy why you do it.” - I Know What I Believe: Using Theory to Prepare Youth Workers (McKamey, Bogad, Clemons, Restler)
This quote really speaks to me because it highlights the importance of understanding our reasons for doing something, especially in youth work. It serves as a reminder that our actions should be grounded in clear values and intentions. In youth development, understanding our reasons shapes how we connect with young people and the environments we create. It makes me reflect on why I chose this field and the impact I want to have. I aim to support youth as they explore their identities, interests, passions, and future goals. By encouraging them to discover what they love and what they aspire to achieve, I empower them to take ownership of their experiences and choices. It’s important for young people to feel their voices are heard, and by fostering a supportive space for them to express themselves, I can help build their confidence and inspire them to explore their full potential. Understanding our “why” enhances our work and inspires the next generation to pursue their own paths in life.
"We create opportunities for youth to become agents of change through transformative youth leadership programming. We create brave spaces for youth to bring their cultures, values, identities, and truths and then build the skills and tools to name and address equity issues in their communities. Through their leadership, Youth In Action works to create more caring and fair public institutions and systems."
This quote speaks to me because it emphasizes the power of young people as change-makers. It’s inspiring to think that when we create supportive spaces for youth, they can bring their unique cultures, values, and experiences to the table. This not only helps them feel valued but also encourages them to address important issues in their communities. I believe that empowering youth to voice their concerns and take action can lead to meaningful change. By helping them develop skills to address equity issues, we’re not just shaping future leaders, we’re also fostering a generation that cares about creating an equitable society. When youth are given the tools and confidence to advocate for themselves and others, they can meaningfully impact their communities.
"Counselors Not Cops" - Arise - PASS Coalition (Providence Alliance For Student Safety)
The phrase "Counselors Not Cops" highlights the need for support rather than punishment in schools and communities. Young people thrive when they have guidance and someone to talk to instead of facing policing and discipline. This campaign emphasizes the importance of creating safe spaces where youth can openly share their feelings and challenges. When police officers are present in schools, many students feel anxious and unsafe, fearing punishment or harm. This creates a hostile environment that discourages them from seeking help. Instead, having counselors in schools can foster a sense of safety and support. Counselors provide essential mental health services, while also teaching coping skills and conflict resolution. By prioritizing counseling, schools can create environments where students are allowed to focus on learning and personal growth without the fear of being criminalized or harmed. This approach builds trust between students and staff, making it easier for young people to seek help when they need it. Having counselors instead of cops in schools can lead to happier, healthier students and a stronger community.
Tuesday, September 17, 2024
WHAT IS YOUTH WORK? (TRACING HISTORY)
K/L/M Framework:
1. What did I already KNOW?
I already knew that Western views on childhood often overlook or dismiss Indigenous perspectives, which can be harmful. This reading confirmed that Western ideas about youth development have been used to push Indigenous kids to fit into a mold that doesn't honor their culture. It also exposed how these ideas cause Indigenous youth to be treated unfairly. To truly support Indigenous youth, we need to challenge these old and biased views and instead value and respect Indigenous ways of understanding and supporting young people.
2. What did I LEARN?
I learned about the history of how racial theories influenced youth programs like the Boy Scouts and YMCA. These programs used "playing Indian" to reinforce the idea that Western ways were superior. I also learned about G. Stanley Hall's theory, which linked childhood development to racial stages and shaped these youth programs, pushing the idea that children's growth mirrored a supposed racial evolution.
3. What do I want to know MORE about?
I want to learn more about how educators and policymakers are working to replace these outdated concepts with more inclusive and accurate representations of different cultures. I’m also interested in learning more about the Boy Scouts and YMCA history and seeing how things have changed over time with new practices and advocacy efforts.
Monday, September 9, 2024
HOW DO WE SEE (+ STUDY) YOUNG PEOPLE?
A key takeaway for me is the importance of staying true to yourself and not conforming to societal expectations. I believe true greatness comes from being yourself and embracing your unique qualities, even when there's pressure to conform. Everyone can be outstanding by developing their own special skills and viewpoints. Being authentic helps you find your value and identity, even if others don’t always see it. To me, standing out often means going against the norm, which takes bravery and persistence and that's exactly what Zora did. Embracing our differences and using them as strengths shows that true greatness comes from confidently being ourselves and doing things our own way. There will always be people who label us, but it's important to keep embracing who we are despite those labels.
Crip Camp: A Disability Revolution
A key takeaway from the film is the importance of intersectionality in activism. The film shows how the campers not only fought for disability rights but also navigated and addressed other social issues, such as race and gender. Their activism was inclusive and acknowledged the complex ways in which different forms of discrimination intersect. This approach helped create a more effective movement for change. The film highlights that true social change often requires addressing various forms of inequality and understanding how different issues are linked. It’s a powerful reminder that to make a real difference, we need to consider and address all aspects of injustice.
What I found similar between the two is that both Zora and the people with disabilities dealt with rigid systems that didn’t address their individual needs. Zora faced a school system that didn't support her individuality, and her resistance was a form of personal activism. In the film, they also faced numerous barriers and fought for their rights through activism. Both show how people push back against systems that don’t accommodate their needs. Both Zora and the people in the film found strength and support from their communities. Zora’s family helped her with school challenges and encouraged her to be herself. Similarly, the campers at Camp Jened supported each other, creating a strong group that helped them fight for disability rights. In both situations, it showed how having a supportive community made it easier to challenge and change unfair systems.
Monday, September 2, 2024
WHO ARE YOUTH? WHAT IS CHILDHOOD?
TOWARDS LIBERATION!
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